When it is said that attitude can make or break a situation, it’s never truer than with an older worker/job hunter. I’ve seen too many that have proved this over and over again. It all goes back to whether you look at yourself confidently or as a victim.
Allow me to offer up a couple examples…
Here is Al (names changed to protect their privacy), an active 65 year old that had retired, but like so many he needed to get back into the game because of financial reasons. Frustrated, yes, but never being down for long; he went out and quickly sought work. He thought ahead and had a plan… Al went to businesses that target seniors as clients and actually came across a job where he transports even older seniors to their various medical appointments. Giving him an added income, but creating incredible rewards as well.
What’s actually amusing about Al is that when he called the Senior Center about the position, they actually told him that he needed to be over 50 years of age… By talking to him, they couldn’t tell. He laughed and said “I’ve been over 50 for quite some time.” Another amusing fact is that his attitude is so contagious; the “older” ladies adore him! He often gets kisses on the cheek and is continuously requested.
Now let me introduce you to Harriet… Another 65 year old that dresses chic and again seems younger than she is… BUT has a chip on her shoulder about the size of Mt. Rushmore. After going on a few job interviews where she wasn’t hired, but someone younger and in her opinion less experienced was; she’s now assuming that she’ll NEVER get a job because of age descrimination. Instead of researching a different approach, she’s brooding and doing the same thing, over and over. In the long run, she’s creating a self-fulfilling prophecy.
There’s no doubt that age discrimination is out there, but how you look at and react to it makes a huge difference. As with any job search, you need to do a great deal of research and know what direction would work best for you as an individual. You need to make sure that you can stand on an equal level with your competition. That may mean that you need to pick up some new skills and market yourself stronger. Like it or not, you sometimes need to make changes in your approach. Sitting around grumbling doesn’t help anyone!
A few tips that can help:
Market what you have to offer this company and be sure to include areas such as sound computer skills and abilities that can advance you and the company in the future.
Show an awareness of today’s market; strong computer skills, an understanding of social media, and skills you have to advance the company, just to name a few.
Be willing to go back to school.
Understand that today’s job market is not what it was ten years ago and everyone needs to adjust or be left behind. Sometimes to succeed you need to advance your education.
Don’t just learn simple things about the company, do some serious research and take notes on specifically how you can meet their needs.
Know the background on this company and what you can do to advance it. The more the better and take notes showing specific advantages you offer.
Walk in to the interviews prepared, not prepared for battle and with a nasty attitude.
At this stage there’s no hiding your age, deal with that and get over it. Be confident in your own skin and let that shine. There will be companies and individuals that will jump on the age factor, but don’t let this ruffle your feathers; show them what you have to offer. Accept the fact that there will be companies that won’t even give you the chance and understand that when that attitude is there, you wouldn’t have been happy working there. In the years to come, companies like this will only be hurting themselves. The 50+ age group is seriously growing and those companies that don’t adjust to this fact are going to be left in the dust.
Preparation is the key to everything; from your abilities and attitude to your attire and stature, everything is taken into consideration. As the old saying goes, “You never get a second chance to make a first impression.” Make your first impression a powerful one, where age seems to be forgotten.